Lovers of Life – A Three-Month Journey to Your True Power
Beautiful soul...
...are you seeking a deeper connection with yourself, your soul, and your creative potential?
...do you desire passionate encounters, access to your desire, your will, your "yes" and your "no"?
...do you want to experience and live your highest potential during this lifetime?
Welcome to Lovers of Life...
...your three-month transformational journey into your creative power. In this course, we combine insights from the greatest scientific studies on Extraordinary Lovers—people with exceptional intimacy and sex lives—with the timeless wisdom of ancient spiritual traditions.
We will guide you on your journey to embodied presence, compassionate empathy, greater courage, and willingness to take risks, toward authenticity, vulnerability, more pleasure, arousal, and zest for life. We invite you to experience your body as your temple and spiritual home.
Deep erotic self-love is your key to your personal genius and your soul’s magic.
We support you in your individuation process, the alchemy between your conscious mind and the imaginative power of your subconscious.
Contrary to cultural myths, the development of your power is not a coincidence—it is the result of intention, commitment, and the right inner and outer (spiritual) practices.
We help you feel your erotic aliveness and use it effectively in your everyday life. We move away from the idea that sex is primarily about intercourse, penetration, or reproduction, and instead invite a radical deconditioning process that brings you back to the essential questions:
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Who are you, what do you stand for in this world, how does your soul want to unfold in this world?
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What are your core needs, desires, and fantasies?
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What happens when you release yourself from your own limitations and patterns, and embark on a journey of exploration and discovery into the unknown?
The course includes knowledge, techniques, and exercises from sexual therapy, bodywork, shamanic cultures, spiritual practices from yoga, Tibetan Buddhism, and Tantra. We share with you the tools that will allow you to work holistically on all levels of your body.
The accompanying video course offers you 77 videos across 11 modules, providing you with the necessary knowledge, techniques, and supporting your self-experience and self-unfoldment process.
Here is the application questionnaire:
Who is the course for? If you...
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Want to experience and unfold your creative potential in the world
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Desire more – wish to get to know yourself better, yearn for new discoveries, or feel dissatisfied with the current quality of your relationships and encounters
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Want to give your erotic identity and sexual encounters a more central place in your life
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Are ready to take risks and expand the boundaries of your comfort zone
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Are searching for deeper connections with yourself, others, and the world
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Live in a male or female body, whether you're young or old, of any sexual orientation, kinky or vanilla – we welcome everyone!
Course Structure
The course will guide you over several months. In addition to 7 live calls (which will be recorded), we offer WhatsApp support, homework, and exercises for the periods between the calls. You can also book the video course independently from the live sessions and proceed at your own pace.
We meet regularly on Tuesday evenings between 7:00 PM and 9:00 PM. One session will take place on Thursday evening (November 27th).
Module 1 (Live Call 09.09.): Motivation & Goals, Structure & Flow
We will establish the field and begin the group process, providing participants with the opportunity to introduce themselves and settle into the shared space.
The focus will be on the question of what you truly want. This will be a space for clarifying your motivations and goals. Your intentions, desires, and expectations will serve as the foundation for the upcoming months, opening up your space for experiences and connections.
The Video Course will focus on the following themes:
Week 1 – Fundamentals of the Course:
Your body is your resonance and experience space, and we will guide you on how to build a deeper connection to your nervous system using simple tools. You’ll receive an overview of the essentials for the upcoming months, allowing you to identify and address the truly important themes in your life.
Week 2 – Motivation, Goals, and Your Vision:
Every sustainable transformation journey thrives on structure & flow. With the right knowledge, clarity about your motives, and a suitable everyday system, you will find your rhythm. Structure and standards foster creativity, and spontaneity thrives on the right routines and rituals. Your embodied, feeling Shakti energy is held by the presence of your Shiva energy.
Module 2 (Live Call 23.09.): Embodiment, Emotions, and Self-Love
Embodiment is the capacity to be fully present in your body, meaning not only perceiving emotions, desire, and Eros, but embodying and living them. It’s about deeply feeling your aliveness in your bones, directing energies, and freeing the body from control and distrust.
Self-love means accepting and acknowledging yourself as you are, not as you wish to be or hope to become in the future, without shame or fear of rejection. It is the integration of your shadow, reclaiming projections, and a radically honest look inward.
Self-awareness describes the ability to understand the fullness of yourself, with its conscious and unconscious dynamics.
These skills form the foundation for intimate encounters. In Module 2, we will deepen the inner work, helping you land in your body and celebrate the uniqueness of your being. The ability to stay embodied and present during intense energetic experiences is a cornerstone for vitality.
At the same time, we will create space for topics that may block this inner exploration, including fears, worries, doubts, anger, negative expectations, past experiences, personal socialization, biographical influences, and cultural role models. In this way, learning and unlearning go hand in hand.
The Video Course will focus on the following themes:
Week 3 – Emotions & Embodiment:
We will provide you with tools and knowledge to help you understand and embody your emotions on a deeper level. Our goal is to support you in understanding your energetic-emotional body and to help you differentiate between genuine and inauthentic feelings. This week will bring you closer to yourself and the intelligence of your body.
Week 4 – The Brahmaviharas and Bodhicitta:
We will share the ancient wisdom of yogic and Buddhist traditions to set a new foundation from which you can perceive yourself and others.
When we approach encounters based on compassion, joy, equanimity, and serenity, the world we live in begins to change.
In this way, we can become expressions of love and freedom, stop desiring the fruits of our actions, and instead act with intention and inner conviction.
This is how you come into contact with Mahamudra, the great work of your life.
Module 3 (Live Call 07.10.): Pleasure: Boundaries, Yes, No, and Consent
The concept of Consent encompasses both verbal and non-verbal skills that allow us, in relationships, to gain an understanding of our own role, our inner Yes and No, and the form of interpersonal encounters. This fosters clarity, the ability to feel our own boundaries, and at the same time, respecting the boundaries of others. In this way, giving and receiving can happen consciously, and the body relaxes and opens up to pleasure and joy.
Module 3 is focused on the exploration of Consent through body-centered exercises, the development of body awareness, and the trust in our inner truths. This is the foundation for experiencing deep security, joy, pleasure, and vitality in the body. This is how you activate your pleasure system.
The Video Course will focus on the following themes:
Week 5 – Yes, No, and Healthy Boundaries:
Saying Yes and No is more complex than it seems at first glance. These two words form the foundation of healthy boundaries. Only when you set your boundaries in alignment with your truths does the space open for true encounters. In Week 5, we will deepen the practice of feeling your body centers and support you on the journey to your embodied self.
Week 6 – Pleasure and Consent:
Relationships thrive on reciprocal exchange processes, a healthy balance of giving and receiving. Upon closer inspection, this opens up a complex space for experience and encounter. We will guide you on a deeper journey into your pleasure system, into your shadow aspects, and toward a clearer differentiation of your roles in relationships, your needs, and your areas of growth.
Module 4 (Live Call 21.10.): Shadow Work and Relationships
As long as your shadow remains unconscious, it dominates your life, and you call it fate. This is how the great psychologist C.G. Jung put it. Triggers, projections, and feelings of injustice are clues to inner conflicts and untapped potential. We will guide you in becoming aware of your unpolished diamonds.
At Lovers of Life, we also share the communication skills that allow you to show up in relationships exactly as you are: the ability to be transparent, authentic, approachable, vulnerable, and unfiltered. Living in a sex-positive culture also invites open conversations about fantasies, preferences, desires, and expectations.
We aim to create a space that invites more risks, exploration, and closeness— a space where pessimistic attitudes are replaced with optimistic perspectives, distrust flows out of the subconscious, and room is made for deep security and trust.
The Video Course will focus on the following themes:
Week 7 – Shadow Work:
We will show you ways to create new possibilities and encounter spaces in your daily life from your triggers. When our projections return to the source, the view of reality opens up, as well as the recognition of your individual gifts. There are far more of them than you might have thought.
Week 8 – The Pillars of Outstanding Communication:
The tools we share with you offer a structure to develop your exceptional communication skills, understand and express your truths, and free yourself from shame and guilt for being who you are. We explore the languages of love with the goal of allowing your heart to receive and give love with more naturalness and flow.
Module 5 (Live Call 04.11.): Intimacy, Eros, and Sexuality
Working with the inner masculine and feminine polarities explains what turns you on about others and why. You will have the opportunity to explore how the development and maturity of these energetic systems shape your inner and outer relationships and influence your ability to navigate both sexual and non-sexual realms. This is a journey to your embodied, erotic self, one that yearns for radical freedom.
Fantasies are the language of our subconscious. Images and imaginations shape our sense of self, and in turn, the reality we manifest and live in. A vibrant imagination allows contact with the deeper self and initiates processes of soul development. There is no soul development without erotic development, and vice versa. In Week 10, there will be space to explore your erotic core stories.
The Video Course will focus on the following themes:
Week 9 – Energy & Polarities:
As humans, we are primarily energy and vibration. Through soul development, we shape the field that surrounds us energetically. This subtle form of inner work invites you to experience and differentiate your inner polarities. In Week 9, you will gain a deeper understanding of what attracts you to others and how integrating your energy systems leads you to become a more integrated and balanced individual.
Week 10 – Fantasies, Imagination & Desires:
Erotic attraction is shaped by paradoxes and apparent contradictions. The stories we tell ourselves about our identity, erotic selves, and sexual preferences shape us, just as they limit us.
This week, you will have the space to explore your fantasies, strengthen your imaginative power, and become clearer about your preferences. We will encourage you to cultivate more erotic desire.
This work goes far beyond sexual encounters.
Integration Call & Closing Ritual (27.11.)
Today, we come together one final time as a community to close the circle.
Here begins your true journey—a life rooted in your deeper truths. A life where you make the important decisions every day.
A life that continuously reshapes itself in the ever-changing flow of time, where you free yourself just a little more each day.
The Closing Ritual calls upon the energies that will now support you on your journey to live your central life’s purpose. We will accompany each other in leading lives founded on connection and trust from this moment forward.
Week 11 – Making Decisions:
The truly important decisions are often pushed into the future.
Because they are frightening. True freedom is frightening. We support you in addressing those burning topics.
What if you stopped postponing your happiness and aliveness into the future, and started living fully today?
We support you in giving your courageous heart and your wild soul the space they have always longed for.
Registration
Registration for the course is open until August 30th. We’re offering an Early Bird discount until July 31st:
Price:
Early Bird until July 31st: €600 for individuals, €1000 for couples.
From August 1st: €700 for individuals, €1200 for couples.
We look forward to accompanying you on your journey over the coming months.
Here’s the link to the application form:
https://forms.gle/tqWMeHSghWmmNoHZ8
Feel free to reach out to us with any questions!
Much love!!!
Simon & Jelka
Anmeldung & Preise
Die Preise staffeln sich wie folgt:
Early Bird (für die ersten beiden Anmeldungen):
2198 Euro (für beide, im Pivatzimmer)
2398 Euro (für beide, in einem Chalet)
Regulär:
2398 Euro (für beide, im Privatzimmer)
2598 Euro (für beide, in einem Chalet)
Anmelden kannst du dich hier:
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Wir freuen uns sehr auf eine tolle, verbindende und spannende gemeinsame Zeit. Gönnt euch 5 Tage Luxus!
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